hello everyone, It's 8:42 pm as I write this. It's also my 17th blog post. You get one point for knowing the reference in my title C: (Do an internet on them, theyre absolutly wonderful. especially Hide and Seek C:) ~double smiley but anyway i just finished some geometery homework and now I am about to go into topic.
The Question is: Has anyone else noticed that people are slowly declining in the value of friendship they have?
I may have been the only one that noticed, and it may only be in certain areas in the world. It's come to my attention and really has depressed me just at the thought. Why are people putting more and mroe things in front of the relationship you built with your friends? My awesome friend Isaiah, was at a birthday party with his friend Kathrine and her friends. It so happens that her ex who put a leash on her. She invited some friends and her ex got $150 worth of vodka and they all got drunk. The others were only there to get the vodka, they didnt even say happy birthday to kathrine. They just ran off. Isaiah was devasted and I really didn't know what to say because I've never been introduced to those possibilities. Everyone I see here can show their friendship for eachother if something seriously bad happens. Guess that isnt true everywhere. Isaiah couldn't work with himself and he called me. I tried as best I could to have him do the right thing. I don't know whats been happening recently with Kathrine, I just hope good things have happened. But anyway,
I start seeing it with people, how the threats of leaving them or doing something back againts them. It's almost like when your in an actual relationship. Even when fights happen if they do you look past them for the best of happiness and the relationship. People will freak out over the littlest thing. I've even experianced it as I accidentally hit my friend in the face and not even that hard. I felt bad and appoligized and he held that grudge of an accident with him. Until I showed him his wrong doing in trying to get back at me. (He acted as if he was stabbing me in the back, i did not take kindly to that. Seeing that of which I am explaining, but also he says hes christian. A very bad one though.) There's also all the drama that gets created from this as well. Look back at the base of most of which all of it started, and it's over some small or immature thing. I'm pretty sure you can come up with your own example through yourself.
So what to do about all of this? If your a person who values friendship enough to have you and that other person not have a falling out ever, you can easily confess how greatful you are for having the other person. Take the time to just tell the people your closest with how glad you are to have them in your life. Josh actually told me and that absolutly made my night seeing all of the disapointment with friendship people have with another. I told him back that failing the ninth grade was easily worth it if it meant meeting him and geting close to him. Its also worth it to all the others at wihi I met. Skrew my dad and okma, I care for who I want and I pay the price of what it takes to have them. Failing a grade was as said, EASILY worth it.
I havent been explaining much of what I say, but since this all could be relatable I guess im embracing my laziness and putting it all on you :) and I also have been explaining when I have with a whole lot of nothing, or just a long ass version of an example with me. ~Moral of the story~ BE GREATFUL FOR YOUR FRIENDS AND TREAT THEM VERY NICELY. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHERE YOU'D BE AT WITHOUT THEM, PROBABLY NOT A GOOD POSITION AS YOU ARE NOW. yeah, get it. also be greatful for your parents. Batman doesnt have parents anymore.
Goodnight everyone, sleep well. Remain Optimistic! -Nate

Nice blog Nate : ) I really enjoy reading your topics + answers, they are very well written and interesting. I think you should blog more often!
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Thanks Weiling! :D I am still trying to get used to having this blog public. I used to want to keep this blog super secret. haha
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